let it go

March 9, 2017

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Tears resulting from sadness, anger, fear or joy vary chemically from those caused by smelling onions and may be nature’s method of removing chemicals built up by stress from the body. Dr. William Frey II, of the Psychiatry Research Laboratories at the St. Paul-Ramsey Medical Center, St. Paul, Minn., believes this to be the case. Studies he has done indicate that women cry five times as often as men and that 85% of the women and 73% of the men thought that crying made them feel better. Most common reason for crying is sadness, followed in rank by happiness, anger, sympathy, anxiety and fear.

 

 

The late Scottish preacher, Alexander Whyte, observed that we all tend to hang heavy weights on the thinnest wires (source unknown). He meant that we hang our happiness on fragile things that easily and quickly can be taken from us: health, mates, children, jobs, homes, or possessions. These are all good blessings from the Lord. But they’re inadequate as a foundation for lasting joy, because they’re all so uncertain and transitory.

 

While any major loss is emotionally painful, it’s crucial that we learn how to work through such losses biblically, because we’re all going to face them. Peter (1 Pet. 5:8-9) indicates that it is precisely in times of suffering that the devil seeks to destroy our faith. I’ve seen many believers who have wiped out spiritually because they didn’t know how to face suffering biblically.

 

 

For example, some have the mistaken notion that because they believe in Jesus, He will protect them from major suffering. When tragedy hits, they feel that God had abandoned them. Others were taught to claim healing by faith. When that didn’t work, they were told that they didn’t have enough faith. Others have been under the impression that it is unspiritual to grieve or shed tears. So they tried to smile and say, “Praise the Lord,” around other Christians, but they were dying inside.

 

 

Everyone seems to forget in the parable of the two men, one built his house upon the sand and one built his house upon the rock, yes, the foundation of our life matters, but the point often missed is the storm hits both.

 

 

Storms come and they go, sorrow and sadness hopefully comes and goes. If one event in your life has brought you what seems to be permanent sadness, then you have not allowed yourself to go through the steps of grief and come out the other side. Bad news no one can help you, good news you can help yourself by losing the anger and believe that God wants you to live in joy not perpetual sorrow.

 

 

God bless from scumlikeuschurch@gmail.com

 

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