turn on your heart light

May 11, 2017

now you know I’m going crazy, when a rocker quotes Neil Diamond, what’s the world coming to?

MOST NEEDED, LEAST PRACTICED

Paul’s letter to Philemon is unusual in that it is not a letter addressed to an entire congregation to correct a doctrinal issue or rectify a church crisis. It is an attempt to restore the relationship between two believers: a slaveowner (Philemon) and his runaway slave (Onesimus), who might have stolen from his master but had since become a believer.

 The bulk of the letter is Paul’s notice that he is sending Onesimus back to Philemon to reconcile their situation. Paul’s message is that restoration between fellow believers is more important than what divides us.

 As Christians we can, to some degree, reestablish friendly relations and be reconciled with non-believers. But the truest and fullest reconciliation between people is only possible after they have first been reconciled to God through Jesus.

 Here are a few recommendations for seeking reconciliation with a fellow Christian:

  ➤ Care more about the reconciliation than the hurt—Too often we confuse wanting reconciliation with wanting the other person to admit they’ve wronged us. When we seek true reconciliation, we let go of old hurts and grievances so we can live in peace with one another (see Ro 12:18).

 ➤ Have another believer serve as a mediator—When siblings fight they often need a parent or other relative to mediate the dispute. The same is often true for siblings in the church family. Enlisting a mediator helps broach the topic of reconciliation and reminds us that our ruptured relationships affect other brothers and sisters in Christ. In this case, Paul acted as a mediator between Philemon and Onesimus.

 ➤ Seek forgiveness first—Without forgiveness there can be no reconciliation. Forgiveness is therefore not only a necessary step, but it is also the first and most essential step in the process of restoration and peace.

 ➤ Accept what is offered—Immediate reconciliation isn’t always possible. Our words and actions might have damaged the relationship to the point where trust is difficult to reestablish. Be patient. Accept small measures that restore unity so that in time full reconciliation might become possible.

GOD BLESS FROM SCUMLIKEUSCHURCH@GMAIL.COM

PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OUR FOLKS IN PRAYER

 

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